16 Sexual Personalities — Free Test & Report

An uncomfortable experience from my past still affects how relaxed I feel about sex today.

When I feel sex against my morals, values or beliefs, I lose interest and my arousal goes down.

I feel comfortable saying no to sexual things I don’t want, and I don’t blame myself for it.

If sex or intimacy doesn’t go the way I hoped, I keep feeling embarrassed long after it’s over.

I can separate my sexual fantasies from my real-life values.

When I worry about hygiene during intercourse, my sexual desire goes down.

I sometimes feel that having sexual desire means I am bad or dirty.

If something uncomfortable happens during sex, I can recover and move on without feeling shame for a long time.

There are sexual moments where my whole body strongly tells me ‘this is not okay.

I often avoid difficult conversations about sex with my partner

Open conversations about rules and boundaries make me feel safe and respected.

I feel comfortable suggesting safety steps during sex, like using a safe word or taking a pause.

Instead of saying what I want during sex, I expect my partner to figure it out on his own.

If something goes wrong during sex, I can fix it and feel close again.

I ask my partner if they feel comfortable and what they like during sex.

When intimacy feels wrong or uncomfortable, I often freeze instead of saying something.

Saying 'no' or 'not now' feels safe and natural for me.

I can clearly ask my partner for what I want in sex without guilt.

During sex, I often lose touch with what my body is feeling in the moment.

I am aware of the places on my body that feel good with touch, and I can sense how this shifts over time.

Taking things slowly in foreplay makes it easier for my body to become aroused.

My attention drifts away from my body during intimacy.

I can guide myself or my partner by paying attention to small body sensations.

Touch on places like my back or scalp (not genitals) can strongly increase my arousal.

It’s hard for me to sense what my body wants during intimacy.

When I focus on breath or add active movement, it usually increases my pleasure.

I can notice small shifts in my body (breath, warmth, tingling) as arousal builds.

I rarely feel interested in anything outside my usual sexual routine.

I’m comfortable setting boundaries before exploring something new.

Exploring new positions, techniques, or toys during sex makes me feel excited.

I don’t enjoy sexual experiments—surprises and new things usually turn me off.

I like when sexual intensity grows step by step, in a planned and agreed way.

I have a natural curiosity to explore new sensations, fantasies, or roles in intimacy.

I feel more comfortable with gentle and familiar experiences than with new and adventurous ones.

I like clear power dynamics (leading or being led) when both partners agree.

I enjoy erotic experiences that feel new, intense, or different from the usual.

I find it exciting when my partner and I create a shared story, such as role-play.

I keep my fantasies private because they feel uncomfortable to share with my partner.

Music, films, or books easily spark my erotic imagination and arousal.

I don’t often fantasise erotically when I’m away from real sexual experiences.

I’m comfortable using sexual fantasy to guide what we can try.

Story, mood, or scenario can turn me on as much as touch.

I find it hard to use fantasies to imagine sexual scenes in my mind.

I like talking about my sexual fantasies or giving small hints about them to my partner.

I often have sexual daydreams, and they feel very real in my mind.

Kind, ongoing support helps me feel safe enough to relax into pleasure.

Part of me fears losing my freedom when another person comes too close.

I need to feel safe and emotionally secure to enjoy sex fully.

I can discuss needs and fears with my partner without shutting down.

I sometimes stay away from closeness because it feels too intense for me.

After intimacy, I want comfort and gentle aftercare.

When I worry that someone might not want me, I step back and protect my heart.

I feel good depending on my partner, and I’m also comfortable when they depend on me.

“I feel most safe in sex when I share a close emotional bond with my partner.

Being with a new partner makes me feel excited and full of energy.

I don’t feel comfortable trying new sexual things unless I’m in a committed relationship.

I can enjoy closeness or sex without expecting it to lead to long-term commitment.

My beliefs and morals guide me to avoid casual intimacy, as it doesn’t feel right for me.

I feel comfortable when strong attraction moves quickly into sex, without a long build-up or formal dating.

I prefer building deeper intimacy with one partner instead of trying many new experiences.

I feel interested in the idea of having sex with new partners.

I only feel comfortable being intimate in a long-term relationship.

I can enjoy sexual connection outside of long-term or exclusive relationships without discomfort.

If there is no warm-up or foreplay, I usually don’t feel in the mood for sex.

Feeling emotionally close to someone quickly turns my desire on.

I wake up already wanting intimacy, more days than not.

I rarely notice my desire unless we’re already sexually interacting.

After a gentle start, my sexual desire can rise very strongly.

My sexual desire is steady, even without a warm-up.

I need an emotional connection or a sensual context before my body wants to move to sex.

“I frequently notice desire rising inside me unexpectedly, without needing a trigger.

My sexual desire often appears only after touch or some time after closeness begins.

During intimacy, my anxiety often blocks me from enjoying pleasure.

I usually stay comfortable continuing intimacy, even if everything around me isn’t perfect.

When my partner feels distant or distracted, it’s hard for me to stay aroused.

I quickly recover my sexual arousal after an awkward moment.

Concerns about consequences (e.g., mess, contraception, timing) block my sexual desire.

I can enjoy sex and stay focused even if I feel like someone is watching me.

When there’s even a small chance of being disturbed, it’s hard for me to stay in the mood for sex

Fear of being exposed and judged makes it hard to enjoy intimacy.

Worry about my sexual performance can shut down my arousal.

If nothing sexually exciting is happening, I usually don’t feel aroused.

Flirtation during the day makes me eager for intimacy later.

I need a lot of time and stimulation before I feel turned on.

When I’m relaxed, my body switches on with little effort.

Knowing something sexual is coming — like a dirty message or planned meeting — often excites me and increases my arousal

Even with the right person, my sexual arousal usually stays flat.

I often feel physically responsive from little gestures — a light touch, a quiet whisper, or a small sign of intimacy

My arousal builds quickly when I feel seen, wanted, and desired by another person.

A playful look or hint can turn me on quickly.